Saturday, May 06, 2006

so i'm doing this paper the work of Covenant Women (a women's group in my denomination) during the years of 1966-1976 or so. i found some interesting quotes. here's one in particular:

Many of our conflicts concerning femininity are false conflicts. A woman chooses not between a career and a family, but for being a person. And a man chooses not an aggressive career woman or a meek homemaker, but a full person who seeks after wholeness wherever she is.
Covenant Companion, Jan 14, 1966

i also attended a feminist/womanist/latina gathering of sorts at a professor's house the other night, and we talked a lot about this label of "feminist" and how people perceive it and what the cost of claiming it is. i myself have been struggling with why people find it so threatening -- i mean, i know why people find it threatening, especially men, but it's really not. it's about a pursuit of wholeness, an encouragement by society of that pursuit, an affirmation of life, as Elsa Tamez would say. what's frustrating is that a pursuit of wholeness causes segregation for me as a woman, causes hesitancy in relationships for others, turns on a switch in my brain that shocks me everytime someone talks about their "fellow man" or tells someone else to "grow a pair" or i hear suspicion or uncertainty in my own seminary about a Christian's woman's role as equal partner in the home, or as a leader in the church, or i see young girl's magazine stressing and restressing the importance of appearance.

i am a Christian, i am a woman, i am white, i am a feminist, i am an activist. how do i make these things work together? how do i affirm life (my own and others') the way Christ affirmed life?

3 comments:

Torgo said...

How much resistance (if any) do you encounter as a woman pursuing a leadership role in the Christian faith? I'm curious about that intersection, which probably varies wildly from group to group. But how accepting is your school of women? (I would assume it very much is or you wouldn't be there.)

Xtina said...

well, here's the weird thing -- i didn't even know this was that big of an issue until i got here. the school is totally accepting and affirming of women, the denomination is on paper, but not always in individual churches (like, it might be hard to get a job). there are also men at the seminary who don't affirm women in ministry, which is really hard, because it can make you kind of suspicious -- like "are there people here who don't think i should be here?"

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